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家庭冷暴力的正确应对

作者:admin  日期:2019-01-03 14:27  人气:
“冷暴力”在《婚姻法》 中并未出现,离婚要件也只规定了“家庭暴力”,但不可否认,家庭“冷暴力”正逐渐成为越来越多面临婚姻问题家庭可能遭遇的实际问题。尤其社会环境,生活观 念的变化。对婚姻的正常运行造成了很大冲击。在婚姻出现危机而又无法调和时,很多人采取了“冷暴力”的处理方式,即“三不”原则:不看、不管、不问。长此 发展,势必会对另一方身心造成巨大伤害。尤其引人深思的是,“冷暴力”的受害者往往是女性一方,可以说,针对男人的不理不睬,不回家甚至不提供任何经济开 支,她们往往无计可施。这样的情况在众多离婚案中比例正逐渐攀升。那么,一方(尤其是女方)该如何应对家庭“冷暴力”呢?,拿起法律武器,维护自己的配偶 权,才是唯一行之有效的办法。
 
"Cold violence" does not appear in the Marriage Law, and divorce requirements only provide for "domestic violence", but it is undeniable that family "cold violence" is gradually becoming a practical problem that more and more families facing marital problems may encounter. Especially the change of social environment and life concept. It has a great impact on the normal operation of marriage. In the crisis of marriage but unable to reconcile, many people adopt the "cold violence" approach, that is, the "three no" principle: do not look, ignore, do not ask. In the long run, it is bound to cause tremendous physical and mental harm to the other party. In particular, it is thought-provoking that the victims of "cold violence" are often women. It can be said that they often have nothing to do without paying attention to men, not returning home or even providing any financial expenditure. Such a situation is gradually rising in many divorce cases. So, how should a party (especially a woman) cope with "cold violence" in the family? The only effective way is to take up legal weapons and safeguard their spouse's rights.
 
 
 
具体建议如下:
 
Specific recommendations are as follows:
 
 
 
一、考虑向对方提出以协议方式约定双方具体权利义务,虽然不能解决根本冲突,但在不离婚的前提下应该是可行的。二、“冷暴力”也应视为家庭暴力的一种,在长期遭受冷暴力下,受害方应该注意保留证据,离婚时作为无过错方要求物质和精神损害赔偿。
 
1. Consider proposing to the other party to agree on the specific rights and obligations of both parties by agreement. Although it can not solve the fundamental conflict, it should be feasible without divorce. Secondly, "cold violence" should also be regarded as a kind of domestic violence. Under the long-term cold violence, the victim should pay attention to retaining evidence and claim material and spiritual damages as the innocent party in divorce.
 
 
 
对于家庭冷暴力,专家为妇女们支了几招:
 
For domestic cold violence, experts have offered women several tips:
 
 
 
第一,夫妻双方不愿说话,可以采用其他方式交流,比如发个短信、写封邮件。如果条件不允许就写在纸上,把想与对方说的话写下来。
 
First, couples are reluctant to speak and can communicate in other ways, such as sending a text message or writing an email. Write on paper if conditions do not permit. Write down what you want to say to the other party.
 
 
 
第二,如果家里有孩子,可以从孩子的学习、工作、生活等方面的话题逐步地产生交流,达到沟通的畅通。如果没有孩子,可以考虑两口之家增加一个新成员。
 
Secondly, if there are children in the family, we can gradually generate communication from the children's learning, work, life and other topics, so as to achieve smooth communication. If there are no children, consider adding a new member to the family of two.
 
 
 
第三,如果有什么两人都不愿提的话题,可以先暂时不说。先说一些无关紧要的问题,然后逐步地真诚地进行沟通。
 
Thirdly, if there are any topics that neither of them would like to mention, we can leave them alone for the time being. Say something unimportant first, and then gradually communicate in good faith.
 
 
 
第四,妻子在丈夫的眼中永远都是弱者,即使你再有能力,丈夫也有保护你的想法。去迎合他,每天要求他抱你10分钟,只要坚持,时间长了两个人的感情会大有改观。
 
Fourth, the wife is always weak in the eyes of her husband. Even if you have the ability, the husband has the idea of protecting you. To cater to him, ask him to hold you for 10 minutes every day, as long as you insist, a long time of two people's feelings will be greatly improved.
 
 
 
第五,把家内冷色调的灯光换成暖色调的,在丈夫回家前将灯光调暗。回家后他会觉得非常温馨。
 
Fifth, change the cold-toned lights into warm-toned ones, and dim the lights before the husband comes home. He will feel very warm when he comes home.

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