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家庭冷暴力的主要类型

作者:admin  日期:2019-01-03 14:28  人气:
以下是对经常实施冷暴力人群的分型,看一看,你是否在不经意中成了家庭“冷暴力”的主角?
 
The following is the classification of people who often engage in cold violence. See if you inadvertently become the protagonist of "cold violence" in the family?
 
 
 
冷嘲热讽
 
Cynical
 
 
 
有一类人从来不喜欢赞美别人,哪怕是对丈夫或是妻子,这是最常见的一种情况。比如妻子有些想法想征求丈夫的意见时,丈夫就说“你也不看看自己几斤几两就跟别 人学”、“你也不照照镜子看看自己的模样,再漂亮的东西套在你身上也好不了”;比如夫妻因为财务问题有异议,做妻子的就说“你要是像她老公一样能挣钱,我 还用跟你说这些”、“如果你还是个男人,就别让我操这份心”、“我真是瞎了眼,找了一个这么没用的人”;还有,“你干了什么见不得人的事,你自己最清楚” 等等一些刺伤人自尊心的话。
 
There is a group of people who never like to praise others, even to their husbands or wives, which is the most common situation. For example, when a wife wants to ask for her husband's advice, the husband says, "You can learn from others without looking at herself a few kilograms or two." You can't look at yourself in the mirror, and no more beautiful things can be put on you."For example, when a husband and wife disagree with their financial problems, the wife says,"If you can make money like her husband, I'll tell you all these things. "If you're a man, don't let me worry about it." "I'm really blind, looking for such a useless person"; and "What you did is invisible, you know best" and other words that hurt people's self-esteem.
 
 
 
提醒惩罚
 
Reminder Punishment
 
 
 
这是一种女人喜欢用的方法,通常她们并不想真让丈夫伤心或痛苦,只是用行为表示出她的不高兴,提醒丈夫注意她的感受,反醒一下做错了什么。比如摔东西、拒绝或敷衍性生活、对着孩子说爸爸如何不好、一句话不说转身回娘家……总之,丈夫不喜欢怎样她就怎样。
 
This is a method women like to use, usually they do not want to really make her husband sad or painful, but use behavior to express her unhappiness, remind her husband to pay attention to her feelings, wake up and do something wrong. For example, throwing things, refusing or perfunctory sex life, telling the children how bad the father is, turning back to his mother's house without saying a word... In short, what her husband doesn't like is what she does.
 
 
 
不管不顾
 
Be careless with
 
 
 
不关心对方的烦恼和家庭中的饮食起居,不再做以前一直由自己主动承担的家务;临时出门不再通知对方;没有任何原因地“失踪”,让对方找不到踪影;懒得和对方说话;不喜欢单独面对对方。
 
Do not care about each other's troubles and family food and living, no longer do the housework that they have been taking the initiative to undertake before; go out temporarily and no longer inform each other; without any reason "missing", so that the other can not find traces; lazy to talk to each other; do not like to face each other alone.
 
 
 
听之任之
 
Allow someone to continue
 
 
 
这是一种比较严重的状况,说明两个人的感情出现了大的危机,正在丧失主动解决问题的意愿,对方所做的和所说的一切好像都与自己无关,只是为了维持婚姻的形式。
 
This is a more serious situation, indicating that two people's feelings have a major crisis, is losing the willingness to take the initiative to solve the problem, the other party did and said everything seems to have nothing to do with themselves, just to maintain the form of marriage.
 
 
 
每个家庭的情况不同,而冷暴力的发生也没有特别的前兆和过程,可能就是为一件小事斗气开始的,夫妻间这么亲近的关系,你想没想过:为什么要以冷漠相对,为什么有话就是不能好好说呢?
 
Every family is different, and there is no special precursor and process of cold violence. Maybe it's just a small matter. The intimate relationship between husband and wife has never occurred to you. Why should we be indifferent and relative? Why can't we say something well?

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