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老公出轨,女人为什么不愿离婚?

作者:admin  日期:2018-10-25 17:39  人气:
很多女人为什么宁死也不愿意离婚呢?老公在外面吃喝嫖赌,回家把她当牛做马,还经常大打出手,这样的男人还有什么值得留恋的呢?女人不愿意离婚,终究是怎样的一种心理?
 
Why do many women prefer to die rather than divorce? My husband eats, drinks and gambles outside, goes home and treats her like a cow and a horse, and often fights. What else is there for such a man to be nostalgic about? What kind of psychology is a woman unwilling to divorce?
 
 
 
吵闹后为什么总是女人们先提出分手?而真正分手的时分,却常常又都是女人不愿意?很多女人为什么宁死也不愿意离婚呢?老公在外面吃喝嫖赌,回家把她当牛做马,还经常大打出手,这样的男人还有什么值得留恋的呢?女人不愿意离婚,终究是怎样的一种心理?
 
Why do women always break up after a row? And when it's time to break up, it's often women who don't want to. Why do many women prefer to die rather than divorce? My husband eats, drinks and gambles outside, goes home and treats her like a cow and a horse, and often fights. What else is there for such a man to be nostalgic about? What kind of psychology is a woman unwilling to divorce?
 
 
 
其实,在我们的理想生活当中,有太多这样的傻女人,她们忍受、猖獗、煎熬,看不到将来,以至把生命置之度外,而一切的这一切她们只是为了维持一段在外人看来还算完好的婚姻。今天,让我们一同来试着走进这些不幸女人们的内心世界吧。
 
In fact, in our ideal life, there are too many such foolish women, they endure, rampant, suffering, can not see the future, and even put life aside, and all these are just to maintain a good marriage in the eyes of outsiders. Today, let's try to enter these unfortunate women's inner world.
 
 
 
女人总不愿意分手大约都是由于如下一些心理缘由:
 
Women are always reluctant to break up because of some psychological reasons.
 
 
 
其一、爱上了习气,便没有了重新选择的勇气
 
First, when he falls in love with his habits, he will not have the courage to choose again.
 
 
 
具有这种心理的女人,我们既能够说她是固执和忠贞,但前提是她必需遇上一个好男人。但更多的时分,我们不得不说她是顽固和懦弱。想想天空永远湛蓝在前文所提到的那个网友,她的婚姻其实曾经不是普通的凄惨了,而她照旧顽固地守候着那块天堂不肯放手,外表上看她是英勇的,她能够为了婚姻而不惜生命——“宁死也不离婚”。但真正想一下,她却是最为害怕懦弱的女人,婚姻没有将来,老公把她不当人,可她还沉浸在那些曾经短暂的美妙神往中,还无法从那些低微的习气过住中走出来,这是一种多么可怕的忠贞和懦弱啊?她的懦弱曾经懦到了骨子里,致使于让她的男人无法看到她作为一个女人最最少的威严。
 
A woman with this mentality can be said to be stubborn and faithful, but only if she meets a good man. But more often than not, we have to say that she is stubborn and cowardly. Think of the blue sky forever mentioned in the previous online friend, her marriage was not ordinary miserable, and she still stubbornly waited for that heaven refused to let go, the appearance of her bravery, she can not hesitate to die for marriage - "rather than divorce." But really think about it, she is the most cowardly woman, marriage has no future, her husband improper her, but she is still immersed in those once brief wonderful fascination, still can not get out of those low habits, which is a terrible loyalty and cowardice? Her cowardice had been so cowardly that her man could not see her least dignity as a woman.
 
 
 
这样的男人很悲痛,但比这个男人更为悲痛的是这个女人,以至能够说,是女人用本人的悲痛成就了男人的另一种悲痛。女人的悲痛是依赖、懦弱和麻醉,男人的悲痛是自私、狂妄和兽性,而当女人一旦依赖上了某个习气,男人一切的兽性似乎她都能够原谅,于是不由要问:其真正错的是女人爱上了习气,还是错的是男人的禽兽没有了人性?
 
Such a man is very sad, but more sad than this man is the woman, so that it can be said that women with their own grief to achieve a man's other grief. Women's grief is dependence, cowardice and anesthesia, men's grief is selfish, arrogant and beastly, and once a woman relies on a habit, all the beastliness of men seems to be able to be forgiven, so it can not help asking: the real fault is that women fall in love with habits, or the wrong is that men's beasts have no human nature?
 
 
 
其二、孩子是女人永远的挂念
 
Second, children are always women's worries.
 
 
 
女人由于孩子不愿意离婚,这并不是女人的错。假如非得找出一个过错方的话,那这个错只能是上帝了。由于是他老人家赋予了女人最为巨大,同时也是最为脆弱的一个品性——母性,母性总能让女人放弃一切的追求,母性让孩子成为了女人终身永远的挂念。
 
It is not a woman's fault that a woman is unwilling to divorce. If we have to find a wrongdoer, this mistake can only be God. Because it is he who endowed women with the greatest, but also the most vulnerable character - maternal, maternal nature can always let women give up all the pursuit, maternal child has become a woman's eternal concern.
 
说心里话,关于女人的这种母性,在这样的一种环境里,天空永远湛蓝不晓得是该歌颂还是贬低,由于我们在这里讲的是婚姻,讲的是女人本人,而不是单纯的人性和贡献。天空永远湛蓝不断以为,作为一个女人应该为本人而活,孩子固然重要,但孩子却不一定完整就是和本人的幸福矛盾的。有很多离异的女人,带着孩子也依然过得很幸福,这里面有一个个人的醒悟、灵性和生存技巧问题,决不是很多人所想象的两者不可兼得的问题。
 
To be honest, with regard to this maternal nature of women, in such an environment, the sky is always blue and does not know whether to eulogize or belittle, because we are here talking about marriage, about women themselves, not simply about humanity and contribution. The sky is always blue constantly thinking that as a woman should live for herself, children are important, but children are not necessarily complete and my happiness is contradictory. There are many divorced women who still live happily with their children, and there is a question of personal awakening, spirituality, and survival skills, which is by no means an unattainable problem for many to imagine.
 
 
 
其三、天下乌鸦普通黑,绕树三匝何枝可依?
 
Third, the world crows are ordinary black, around the tree of three turns.
 
 
 
理想生活中,有相当一局部女人在阅历某段失败的情感之后,便会客观地把这种失败归咎于天底下一切的男人,她们一叶障目不见泰山,由于一个男人的过错而无视了天底下一切的男人,简单客观地以为:天下乌鸦普通黑,男人们都靠不住!
 
In an ideal life, a considerable number of women, after experiencing a certain period of emotional failure, will objectively blame this failure on all the men in the world. They can not see Mount Taishan, because of a man's fault and ignore all the men in the world, simply and objectively think: the crows are ordinary black, men People can't rely on it!
 
 
 
于是,她们在遭受男人的背叛和情感失败之后,便没有了进取之心,想着男人们都一样,就算是分手了,但究竟还是要再找一个男人的,找哪个男人都是“乌鸦普通黑”,与其那样不停地折腾,还不如忍受着点就这样守着一个男人过一辈子。
 
Therefore, they suffer from men's betrayal and emotional failure, they have no enterprising heart, thinking that men are the same, even if the break up, but still want to find a man, who is "crow black," rather than constantly tossing, it is better to endure a point like this guarding one. A man lives all his life.
 
 
 
但是,这种忍受是应该要有本人准绳和底线的,假如你长期阅历的都是严重的家庭暴力,假如你的男人一点婚姻的义务和义务都没尽到,那么你真的是应该思索重新选择了。就算是乌鸦普通黑,但它们的叫声却不一样。或许天底下没有真正的好男人,但一定会有一个更合适你的男人。
 
However, this tolerance should have its own criteria and bottom line, if you have experienced a long period of serious domestic violence, if your man's marriage obligations and obligations are not exhausted, then you really should think about re-selection. Even crows are usually black, but their calls are different. Maybe there is no real good man in the world, but there must be a man who is more suitable for you.

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