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老公闹离婚,但我不想离该怎么办?

作者:admin  日期:2018-10-25 17:40  人气:
我们刚结婚5个月,但我们结婚时他爸已经是癌症晚期,如果他爸没有病,我们不会那么早结婚,我们是经朋友介绍认识的。结婚之前我们就总吵架,因为他在外地上班,我们异地恋,我一直要求他回来工作,他说他回来没有合适的工作,专业不对口,我们是老乡,我们老家工业不发达,所以他不想放弃他的工作。最终我妥协,结婚之后,我想出去3天旅游,他不想去,他说他爸病了,他不能去,他爸当时已经出院,在家里自己什么都能弄,最终在我的劝说和逼迫下,他和我出去玩了3天回来。(这件事,在我们以后吵架中经常被提出来,经常怪我)。再后来我们结婚回娘家时,我们因为一一些小小事事吵了起来,谁也不让谁,他在我我爹妈面前说我,揭我的短,给我感觉很没面子。(在这时我们都没有圆房。我心里想过他是不是那方面不行,我和他结婚时是处女,男性那方面不懂)我当时一冲动就说我要和他离婚。在我妈家大闹了一下,我妈也批评他了,之后我们和好了,一个月后他就又去外地上班,(这时我们还是没有圆房)在他走之前,我在公司犯了制度,被公司 开除 ,我当时为了挽回工作,在公司里说了谎。(这他也知道,)不过最终还是没有保住工作,我失业了,他就经常开玩笑说,我弄虚作假,我很生气,我本来丢了工作就已经很难过,他还那样说。工作台丢了之后,我不好意思告诉双方父母,这时他已经去外地工作了。我就一直在家里找工作,这时他爸每天上上午去医院打一上午的吊瓶,下午开车回家休养。我还是按照往常一样,周末去他家里看他父母,他不愿意,希望我平时也去医院照顾。我说,我现在法开口说我的工作。不能去。(这件事情在我们后来吵架中每次被提出来,说我对他爸爸不好)。过了3个月他爸突然去逝了,他从外地赶回来,刚开始回来的一个月中, 我们还好,没吵架,后来就开始经常因为一些小事吵架,我们互不相让。之间我们吵架我又提出离婚,当时我们还是是没有圆房,我就一直感觉他那方面不行,后来找中医看过,说他没有问题。拿了中药回来吃。我和一个大姐说了我的生活,他说,我老公那方面起肯定有问题,让我和他离婚,我有些舍不得这两年的感情,后来圆房了,时间很短。这过年我们又吵起来,他还动手打了我,之前我们们吵过架,他也动过手。这次很严重的打了我。我一气之下报了警,警察说这种事情只能调解,不能拘留,我就又让警察走了,当天晚上我出去住了一晚,第二天去他妈接他们俩,他妈就问我昨天晚上怎么回事,我说的话声音有些大,他就说我和他妈吵吵。后来他抢车钥匙,我不给,他就抢,我抢不过他,我就把车钥匙丢在床上,他就用力打我的头两下,我说说我要和他离婚,他说离就离,他妈就说考虑清楚,(他会做饭,他在家里平时都是他做饭,我去他妈家只是打打下手,也没洗过盘子,冬天水很冷,没吵架时,他不说我,一吵架这些些事也要说我的不是)平时我们不吵架时他对我还是挺好,一吵架大多数都是我哄他。现在我该怎么办
 
We've just been married for five months, but when we got married, his dad had terminal cancer. If his dad hadn't been ill, we wouldn't have married so early. We met through friends. We always quarrel before we get married, because he works in the field, we fall in love with each other, I have been asking him to come back to work, he said he did not come back to the right job, professional is not the right, we are hometown, our industry is not developed, so he does not want to give up his job. Finally I compromised. After I got married, I wanted to go out for three days. He didn't want to go. He said his father was sick and he couldn't go. His father was discharged from hospital and could do anything at home. Finally, under my persuasion and coercion, he went out and played with me for three days. This incident is often raised after our quarrels, often blamed on me. Later, when we got married and went back to our mother's house, we quarreled over all sorts of trifles, and nobody let anyone go. He said to me in front of my parents, uncovering my shortcomings, made me feel shameful. At that time, we didn't have a round room. I wondered if he couldn't do that. When I married him, I was a virgin, but I didn't understand the male side.) I said on the spur of the moment I wanted to divorce him. My mom made a big fuss at my mom's house, and my mom criticized him. Then we made up. A month later, he went to work outside the city. Before he left, I broke the rules and got fired. I lied in the company to save my job. (He knows that.) But eventually I didn't keep my job, and when I lost my job, he used to joke that I was cheating, that I was angry, that I was already sad to lose my job, he said. After I lost my worktable, I was sorry to tell both parents that he had gone out to work. I had been looking for a job at home, when his father went to the hospital every morning to make a morning's bottle, and drove home in the afternoon to recuperate. As usual, I went to see his parents at the weekend. He didn't want to see them. He hoped I would go to the hospital to take care of them. I said, now I'm going to talk about my work. You can't go. This incident was raised every time after we quarrelled, saying I was bad for his father. After three months his father died suddenly, he rushed back from abroad, just came back a month, we were okay, no quarrel, then began to quarrel often because of some small things, we do not give in to each other. We quarreled and I asked for a divorce. At that time, we still did not have a round room. I always felt that he could not do that. Later, I looked for the Chinese medicine and said he had no problem. Took the Chinese medicine to come back to eat. I talked about my life with an elder sister, he said, my husband must have a problem in that respect, let me divorce him, I can not bear the feelings of these two years, and then round room, the time is very short. This year we quarreled again, and he started hitting me. Before we quarreled, he also moved. It hit me badly this time. I called the police in anger, the police said this kind of thing can only be mediated, can not detained, I let the police go, that night I went out to stay one night, the next day to pick them up, the mother asked me what happened last night, I said a little loud, he said I quarreled with his mother. Later he grabbed the car keys, I didn't give them to him, he grabbed them, I couldn't grab them, I left them on the bed, he gave me the first two punches, I said I was going to divorce him, he said he would leave, the fuck said it was clear, (he would cook, he usually cooks at home, I went to the fuck's house just to fight, also He didn't wash dishes, the water was cold in winter, he didn't say me when he didn't quarrel, and he didn't say anything about me when he quarreled. What should I do now?

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