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出轨老公屡教不改怎么办?

作者:admin  日期:2018-10-25 17:42  人气:
出轨老公屡教不改怎么办?我和现在的老公都是再婚走到一起的,他有一儿一女,而我在前段婚姻中没有生育,不过,由于他已经有两个孩子,已经不再符合当时的生育政策,规定他不能再生育了,所以,我们结婚后就一直没有办法再要自己的小孩。2009年后,虽说生育政策已经没有过去那么不近人情,可是我的年纪也已经大了,已经过了想生孩子的年龄。然而,随着我的年龄越来越大,慢慢地我越来越感到婚姻缺乏安全感,尤其是当我隐隐约约发现老公在外面好像有了其他女人之后,不牢固的婚姻感觉让我开始后悔自己为什么没有要自己的孩子?
 
What happens when a husband goes off the hook? My husband and I are now married together, he has a son and a daughter, and I did not have children in the previous marriage, but, because he has two children, no longer in line with the reproductive policy at that time, he can not reproduce, so we have been unable to marry their children. After 2009, although the birth policy has not been as inhumane as it used to be, I am also older than I wanted to have children. However, as I grew older, I gradually felt insecure about my marriage, especially when I vaguely found out that my husband had other women outside, and the feeling of a weak marriage made me start to regret why I didn't have a child of my own?
 
 
 
被我察觉他有外遇是在一次极其偶然的机会,那时,他生病住院,需要做手术,期间,被我发现有一个陌生电话号码频繁给他发关心简讯,所用语言大多是夫妻之间的那种口吻语气,当时,我就察觉到情况有点不对,追问老公那个人究竟是谁?起先老公是支支唔唔始终不知所云,最后,在我的不懈追问之下,他不得不承认那是一个女人的手机号码,但仍然不承认他们之间有那种特别的关系。
 
When I noticed that he was having an affair, he was in hospital and needed an operation. During this period, I found out that a strange telephone number frequently sent him care newsletters, mostly in the tone of husband and wife. At that time, I noticed something was wrong and asked my husband. Who is that man? At first, my husband was perplexed and did not know what to do. Finally, under my constant questioning, he had to admit that it was a woman's mobile phone number, but still did not admit that there was a special relationship between them.
 
 
 
我联想到自己前段时间住院,老公也有行为不正常的征兆,比如洗床单,你洗就洗了呗,可他硬说是他女儿洗的,圆谎也不会,谎言自然很快就被揭穿。这次,我问那个女人是不是他从前的女友,他就是一句都不说,还说没有什么的,俩人之间只是发发信息。
 
I think of my husband who was hospitalized some time ago and had signs of abnormal behavior, such as washing the sheets, and you washed them, but he insisted that his daughter washed them, and that a round lie would not occur. The lie was quickly exposed. This time, I asked the woman if she was his ex-girlfriend, and he said nothing, nothing, just a message.
 
 
 
可是,昨天晚上,我发现在我内衣抽屉里有了不属于我的女人内裤,问他说是他女儿的,可我知道这绝对不会是他女儿的,因为他女儿很少在家的,也很少会想到帮我收拾内衣的。现在,我的心再也无法平静了,我不想这样被他无缘无故地耍着玩呀,想想为了这个家,我是尽心尽力又竭尽全力,甚至是省吃俭用,还放弃了做自己孩子母亲的机会,没想到忙到最后却要落一个被背叛的结局!为此,我提出离婚,可我老公说他不会跟我离婚。
 
But last night, I found a woman's underwear that didn't belong to me in the drawer of my underwear and asked him if it was his daughter's, but I knew it would never be his daughter's, because his daughter was seldom at home and seldom thought of helping me with my underwear. Now, my heart can no longer be quiet, I do not want to be so unreasonable to play with him, think of this family, I was dedicated to doing my best, even frugal, and gave up the opportunity to be a mother of their children, did not expect to be busy to the end of a betrayal! For this reason, I asked for a divorce, but my husband said he would not divorce me.
 
 
 
想跟他分居,他是不可能出去住的,这儿毕竟是他的家,他的儿子和女儿也不会同意老爸净身出户,而我更是不会主动离家出走,毕竟错不在我,凭什么我要离开这个家?
 
It's impossible for him to live apart from him. It's his home after all. His son and daughter won't agree with his father to go out of the house. And I won't leave home on my own initiative. After all, it's not my fault. Why should I leave the house?
 
 
 
老公病愈出院后,这几天我一直耿耿于怀那个女人,想起来自己在2008年的时候就曾经原谅过他一次,他还写有保证书,发誓今后再也不会跟其他女人有暧昧往来,否则就自愿净身出户。现在,他花心再发,一个连自己的誓言都遵守不了的男人,叫我如何还能再跟他生活在一起?就算离不了婚,我怎么还会一如既往对这个家庭作任劳任怨的真心付出?只是自己已是临近50岁的女人了,又有过一段不成功的婚姻,现在,人过半百又要面临一次离婚选择,心里的伤害又没有地方可以倾诉,只能找你私家侦探倾诉了。
 
After my husband got sick and discharged from the hospital, I've been thinking about that woman for a few days, remembering that I forgave him once in 2008, and he wrote a pledge that he would never have an affair with another woman in the future, otherwise he would voluntarily leave home. Now, how can I live with him again, a man who can't keep his vows? Even if I can't live without marriage, how can I still give my heart to this family? But I am nearly 50 years old woman, and had a unsuccessful marriage, now, more than half a hundred people are facing a divorce choice, the heart of the injury and no place to talk, can only talk to your private detective.
 
 
 
他的女儿马上就要大学毕业了,我要告诉他女儿吗?假如他女儿站在他老爸那边维护他老爸,毕竟他们是父女连心,女儿的工作还需要他老爸帮忙,指望他女儿帮着后妈是不太可能的。
 
His daughter is about to graduate from university. Shall I tell her daughter? If his daughters stood by his dad to defend his father, after all, they were father-daughter bonds, his daughter's work still needs his dad's help, it is not possible to expect his daughter to help his stepmother.
 
 
 
我很纠结,上天为什么对我就那么的不公平?我的心地是如此的善良,像我这样的女人为什么要遭到如此不公的对待?我心不甘啊!
 
I am very entangled. Why is God so unfair to me? My heart is so kind-hearted. Why do women like me suffer such unfair treatment? My heart is unwilling.
 
 
 
私家侦探,我到底该怎样做才是最周全的办法呢?您能不能告诉我啊,我先谢谢了!
 
Private detective, what on earth should I do to be the most comprehensive way? Can you tell me, I thank you first!
 
 
 
 
私家侦探的回复:
 
Private detective's reply:
 
 
 
从你的来信中可以发现,其实你老公早就已经移情别恋很长时间,只是你太过相信他,或是你在生活中太过粗心大意,以至没能及时发现而已。现在,对于你来说是进退维谷,因为你是女人,前面又有过一段失败的婚姻,如果再选择离婚,一来自己这一辈子就真的是什么也没有了,既没有自己可以寄托无限希望的孩子,也没有可以让自己托付终生的伴侣,所以,我不希望你选择离婚,这对自己的伤害会更大。
 
As you can see from your letter, your husband has been empathizing for a long time, but you believe him too much, or you are too careless in life to find out in time. Now, it's a dilemma for you, because you're a woman, and you've had a failed marriage before. If you choose to divorce again, there's really nothing left in your life. You don't have children who you can hope for, and you don't have a partner who you can trust for life. I hope you choose divorce, which will do more harm to yourself.
 
 
 
说到底,男人过了五十岁,在外面花心的能力和欲望就会下降,玩不动了他还玩个屁啊,他不想收心都不行,因此,忍耐一下,等到他收心的时候,这一切自然就会好起来的。
 
After all, when a man is over fifty years old, his ability and desire to spend time outside will drop. If he can't play, he can't stop playing. So, bear with him, and when he does, it will be all right.
 
 
 
再说了,我总怀疑这个女人会是他的前妻,前妻关心一下前夫生病住院和治疗情况也是正常的人之常情,只要不是在你死我活的状况下离的婚,通常还是会有某些联系的,尤其是他们之间还有二个孩子的牵连,有联系也是正常的。
 
Besides, I always suspect that this woman will be his ex-wife, ex-wife care about his illness hospitalization and treatment is normal people, as long as it is not in your life and death of the divorce, there is usually some connection, especially between them and two children involved, there is also normal contact. Yes.

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